One chick after 2 years of off again on again sex decides she just wants to be friends after she just got dumped by another man.
We had an unspoken arrangement, when she was seeing someone, I would occasionally hang out and dispense advice on her latest beau sans sex.
Inevitable, after she was dumped, she would come to me for sex and companionship.
This worked out pretty well over the span of a few years. It worked for me, but now all of a sudden she decides she wants me to be her friend without the sex.
She is an attractive 35 year old, so she is pretty much a pump and dump for most men. I was probably the closest thing she had to a long term as she was going to get.
She invites me over after telling me she was suicidal over the weekend. She has done this before. I don’t take it very seriously, but I do listen to try and gauge making sure she isn’t serious.
I get there and the first thing she does is give me a quick peck on the lips. Then she gives me a “gift”, she had found a box of fancy condoms. She knows that I play around. She doesn’t ask for specific details and I don’t provide them.
I try to fuck at her place but she tells me she is starving. Looking back she never really like to screw before dinner and drinks (we always split the tab) this bothered me a bit, but she is old school. So I accepted it.
Now, thinking the same rules apply we go to dinner, and then back to her place, then she tells me -no sex. No explanation, no reason, she just doesn’t want to do it.
In less than 5 seconds I gathered my things and left her apartment. She texted me later a warped female logic text that read: “I thought (hoped) our friendship was more than just sex.”
For years we had sex every single time we say each other (unless she was sleeping with someone else) and now she expects to friendzone me, this was a huge sign of disrespect. And she plays coy as if it isn’t a big deal.
It’s been about a month now, and zero contact. Her loss.